Sunday, November 20, 2011

He's a tricky one.

Finn still loves to hug and cuddle. Here are Finn and Carolina, giving each other good hugs.

He does have a slightly tricky side though. At church the other day Finn's Sunday school teacher, Miss Katie, had a cookie that someone gave her. Finn asked for one and Miss Katie told him he'd have to ask me first. He went out in the hallway and pretended to have a conversation with me about the cookie, then came back into his classroom and told her I said it was okay to have a cookie. I think that is both smart and devious. I'll have to watch out for him!

Friday, November 18, 2011

Carolina walks!


Carolina started walking yesterday! And do you know what is weird? Two things: it is exactly the same age at which Maggie started walking (12 months, 3 weeks), and even weirder, it is the exact same day that her 8 1/2-month-old cousin, Charlie, started walking. Can you believe it?! Here is a little video of her from tonight. If I had twenty kids, the early days of walking would never cease to amaze me. It is so much fun to watch her learn and explore.

Saturday, November 12, 2011

Harvest Time!

A few days ago I was playing with the children in the backyard and noticed I could see the shoulders of our carrots peeking out above the soil. I googled "when to harvest carrots" (can't you tell I'm a master gardener? ha) and it said when you could see the top of them and they seemed big enough, as they don't actually ripen. So I thought, why not? We planted an heirloom variety that came in various colors, such as purple, red, white, and, of course, orange. I don't know why but I absolutely love vegetables in unconventional colors. It just seems like more fun.
You can see Finn holding our very first full-sized carrot (a white one), below.
I scrubbed it, cut it up, and we ate it as a little appetizer before dinner. By the way, did you know you should avoid peeling your carrots? That's the most nutritious part so I try to always just give them a good scrub. We look forward to harvesting more carrots this week and I'll try to take a good photograph so you can see all of their beautiful colors.

Thursday, November 10, 2011

Marathon Weekend One

Because every post is better with a photo, here are Finn and Carolina both sucking their thumbs at the same time. It cracks me up when I see this.A few posts ago I mentioned that Grant was going to be working even more than he usually does and I'm happy to report that we survived the first insane weekend without him. He does a lot of work for the country band Gloriana. They're actually pretty good - you can check out their website here, and here are links to some of the work Grant has done for them. This is one of my favorites. Also, I should warn you that he didn't do all of the videos on here and some of their older stuff is not good, so I would hate for you to think that my talented husband made those.

Anyway, he was with them working on a music video until 2AM last Thursday (missing dinner and bedtime) they were playing a show with the Wilmington (NC) Symphony and hired Grant to come along and produce and film some behind-the-scenes things as well as a music video, so he went on the bus with them last Friday around 5pm and didn't return until mid-day Sunday. It may seem silly or complaining but it's very challenging to be at home for a weekend with all three kids by myself. In case you've missed my multiple posts on Facebook about Finn waking up around 4:30AM daily, that was just the icing on the cake for being a single parent all weekend. I also locked us out of the house en route to a birthday party on Saturday. Smart one, huh? Luckily we got to spend a lot of time with family who took pity on us, and we actually had a pretty good time even though it was exhausting. So now we just have to make it through a busy week, next weekend where Grant will be making a short film all weekend for Andrew Osenga, followed by another busy week, and then Thanksgiving! I am so excited I can hardly wait. Oh - and this is out-of-character for me as I work hard to enjoy each moment of my life and not look forward to the next thing, but I am pretty overwhelmed with this particular month for some reason. So please don't tell me to stop and smell the roses! I'm trying.
Here is another funny double thumb-sucking photo for you. I can't exactly remember what we were doing or why it appears Carolina is lying on Finn and they are both in my lap. There's no telling, really.

Tuesday, November 08, 2011

Hippo Lovin'

Carolina has a little hippo toy that's almost like a soft washcloth with a hippo head on it. That sounds weirder in writing than it is in actuality. Anyway, if she doesn't fall asleep right away during naptime, she'll often pull toys into the crib with her from the toy bin next to her bed. The other day I went in to wake her up to pick Maggie up from school (which just feels wrong to wake her up) and she had the hippo on her face! It was so funny that I had to take photos of it from every possible angle. For your viewing pleasure:
Here's what I saw when opened the door.
Here's from the top.
Here's a close-up of her face.
Adorable.

Sunday, November 06, 2011

Halloween 2011: It was INCREDIBLE!

Here are Finn, Carolina, and Maggie with cousins Lily Kate (SuperGirl) and Jack (Superman).
Last summer Maggie watched "The Incredibles" for the first time and absolutely fell in love with it. She loved it so much that it actually inspired her superhero birthday party that we had earlier in October (sorry, no photos yet...). When we were deciding what everyone would wear for Halloween it was quickly decided that there was no choice BUT The Incredibles. In case you've been living under a rock, The Incredibles is an animated movie about a family of superheroes. Each parent and the three children all possess some amazing super powers. It worked out pretty perfectly - there's even a baby Incredible! Okay, he is a boy named Jack-Jack, but it didn't really matter to me if Carolina went as a boy, baby superhero for Halloween. I lucked out by finding a little boy's Dash Incredible costume for a good price at Target, but I didn't want to spend a lot of money ordering costumes for the girls (shipping, etc.) Plus I thought I could make the costumes pretty easily. I simply bought red, long-sleeved t-shirts and red leggings for the girls, as well as a black mask for Maggie (I knew Carolina wouldn't wear one even if I could find one small enough for her!). I drew the Incredibles logo onto freezer paper and created a stencil for each shirt. I did have to paint some of it freehand because of the multiple colors on each on. For more on creating a freezer paper stencil, click here. Anyway, I did it all during a two-hour nap on Halloween, so you know it couldn't have been too difficult.
I'm pretty proud of the way they turned out! Also, it's pretty funny that Erin's kids were superheroes, too. That was completely coincidental, if you can believe it.
Here are Grant and Finn, enjoying Finn's favorite treat, a lollipop.
The last three years we've gone to my sister Erin's neighborhood to trick-or-treat because they have a little parade, a million kids, and Erin hosts a chili dinner afterwards. It's a really fun tradition for us now. Last year Finn didn't really get the whole "trick-or-treating" thing, but this year he had so much fun knocking on doors and picking out his candy. It was so fun to watch. And last year Carolina was a week old! This year she still had no idea what was going on but she really enjoyed being around everybody and all the commotion. Here she is in the stroller during the parade.Here's Finn, showing off his cuteness and muscles.
Finally, here I am with Carolina, wearing the tiny cape I made for her to wear at Maggie's superhero party.And if you're like me and love Halloween but hate all the candy and figuring out how to control it, you may want to check out this interesting blog post from a nutritionist/mom.

Wednesday, November 02, 2011

Pray for me

We have a challenging situation coming up because Grant is basically working nonstop for the next few weeks. It's crazy just how much he works. He has the work ethic of a worker bee, which is one of the many things I love about him, and he's doing it for the benefit of our family, but the next few weeks we will hardly have a break together. It will be tough with three little children. I need to pray for a good attitude and a supply of patience and energy that I've never had before.

Saturday, October 29, 2011

Happy birthday Carolina!

Can you believe it's been a year since Carolina was born?! It seriously went by in a flash. We are so thankful for her life and she is definitely one of the best surprises of my life (I'm going to go ahead and say the best surprise of my life!).
It's funny to celebrate a one-year-old's birthday because it's not like she has any idea that it's her birthday or can even conceptualize a birthday. But we couldn't let the day go by without doing anything. I try to be careful about sugar so I didn't want to give her something sugary to celebrate since we'll be doing that today at her joint birthday party with Maggie. So I bought her a freeze-dried fruit snack at Whole Foods (big whoopee, right?) and then we went to the playground with her and I pushed her on the swing for a half an hour. It's definitely her favorite thing to do. I made an 11-second video of her on the swing on that day because her giggle is just infectious. Please ignore the idiotic sounding person in the background saying "Wheeee!" That would be me, trying to make her laugh.

Not everyone realizes this (I don't think I've blogged about it before) but Carolina strangely was born on her big sister, Elle's birthday. Elle would have turned seven this year on the same day Carolina turned one. I can't believe they share a birthday. Isn't that crazy? I hope that it will make Carolina feel special and connected to her sister but not sad or upset in any way. Every year we have our special things we do to celebrate Elle and now that Carolina shares her birthday we've adjusted some of them. This year was easy because Carolina had no idea, but eventually she will and I don't want her to feel bummed or not celebrated. Both girls are equally important to me but here on earth I think it's more important for Carolina to feel celebrated and loved. I don't think Elle would mind one bit. Luckily we have another birthday or maybe two before Carolina knows about birthdays and about Elle, so we have some time to figure it out. Anyway, this was one of our happiest October 24ths ever and Carolina is hugely responsible for that. In a way, her being born on October 24 has redeemed that day for us. We still love and miss Elle so much and wish she were here, but it's so nice having someone/something to be totally joyful about on that day. And I'd like to take this time to mention that this world is broken and that is the only explanation for something so tragic and painful as losing a child. Happily, my hope is in Jesus, and a time is coming when all things will be made perfect.
Revelation 21:4
He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.
I Thessalonians 4:18
But we do not want you to be ignorant, brothers, about those who have died, so that you may not grieve like other people who have no hope.

Friday, October 28, 2011

"I just can't believe it!"

Yesterday we met my sister, Erin, and her two kids at Target. We spent over an hour there, walking the aisles, drinking coffee (Erin: "I want to marry whoever decided to put Starbucks in Target."), stocking up on Halloween supplies, playing with toys, looking at clothes, and purchasing paper products for Carolina and Maggie's joint family birthday party this weekend. Along the way there were three cousins fighting over an eye ball (yes, a bouncy ball that looks like an eye), one broken glass candle holder ("STAT clean-up on aisle 7! We've got broken glass!"), but mostly everyone was content and well-behaved. Ah, the way to wile away the witching hours of the late afternoon.
Were you wondering how many cousins could fit in one shopping cart? We fit three in but I think we could have squeezed all five in there.
Here are two funny Finn sayings that he's recently picked up. He will say, in a whisper, "Mom, can I tell you something?" And when I lean down to hear what he has to hear, he won't say a word. He just likes asking if he can tell me something.
He also has frequently been saying, "I just can't believe it!" which is pretty cute for a two-year-old.
I know I've said it a million times but God gave me exactly the boy I needed. He is so sweet, joyful, cuddly, and adorable. I think he is pretty awesome.

Sunday, October 23, 2011

Sprinkler Time

Here's a short video Grant made of sprinkler fun at Mimi and Poppy's house this summer. Enjoy!

Who needs a pool? from Howardyoudoing on Vimeo.

Saturday, October 22, 2011

How you know you need some time without your kids...

1) When I'm in the car with Finn (and even Maggie, too) I'm constantly pointing things out to them like trains, dump trucks, dogs, bicycles, etc. Lately when I've been driving by myself I find myself saying, "Look! There's a train!" and then realizing too late that the kids aren't even with me. Yes, this is embarrassing to admit.

2) I was by myself last Sunday shopping for a new pair of shoes and when I was trying on shoes I almost bought a pair that was slightly too large so that I could grow into them and they'd last me longer. Luckily I realized before it was too late that my feet are (hopefully) done growing!

Thursday, October 20, 2011

Happy birthday to...

(Here's a photo of Finn showing off his favorite funny face. He'll run up to us and say "Look at my funny face" and then make that face.)

Finn loves music. His favorite part about his birthday was having the birthday song to him many (many, many, many) times. In fact, he still loves singing the birthday song. He always is sure to sing the entire song, including the "and many more from Channel Four, and Winnie the Pooh from Channel Two."
This morning when Finn came in to wake me up he was singing the birthday song and in my half-asleep state I thought I heard him change the words a little. I asked him to sing it again and he sang (it really works best if you sing it to yourself as you read it), "Happy birthday to you, happy birthday to you, happy birthday to my attitude, happy birthday to you." That's pretty awesome. That is a pretty great way to be woken up.
Then at breakfast, while he was eating his cereal (which he inexplicably calls "fo-fuh"), he started singing the song again, except this time it was "Happy birthday to you, happy birthday to you, happy birthday to my fo-fuh, happy birthday to you." I don't know if it's as funny to see it written down but you'll just have to believe it was insanely hilarious in real life.
I love my little jokester!

Tuesday, October 11, 2011

Happy October!

Here's a photo of my sister-in-law, Kajsa, with her little guy Jacob, my mom, and Carolina and Finn. Look how big my kids are compared to that little peanut! He's about two months old now.

Changing the subject...
Isn't October just the best?! It is my absolute favorite month and I am so lucky that all of my girls are born in October. My friend, Rachel is nine months pregnant right now and is VERY ready to have her baby. I just texted her a little encouragement, telling her that six years ago tonight I worked a full day with a terrible attitude (I was just SURE Maggie was going to come the day before), came home, cried and whined a lot because I was so tired of being pregnant, and then I was holding Maggie in my arms by 2 AM. I cannot believe Maggie will be six tomorrow! It's just crazy.
Anyway, we had her birthday party over the weekend and it was a huge hit. I'll have photos just as soon as I get them from Grant (if you'd like to send him an e-mail to encourage him, I wouldn't mind). It was superhero themed and it was probably my favorite party I've ever done for one of my kids.
Tomorrow is her real birthday and we have some special things planned. When I was little the birthday girl got breakfast in bed, so we are starting that tradition this year with our family. She has been asking about this for months. She requested homemade blueberry muffins so I'll be rising at five AM to make them (Grant and Finn will be up with me, too. Ugh. How do you get a child to sleep later than 4:45 AM?) I'll make extras to take to school at lunch time, defying her teacher's request to send erasers instead of food. Sorry, Mrs. D! If other parents hadn't done it first I probably wouldn't, either. Thanks, fellow parents! Carolina, Finn and I will be eating lunch with Maggie at school. For dinner tomorrow she requested a "European picnic" so we'll have that for dinner. What's a European picnic? I'm glad you asked. When I've traveled in Europe it seemed like at least twice a day I'd eat something like freshly baked bread, an apple, some cheese, and a piece of dark chocolate. It was cheap, delicious, and portable. So now when we want to take a picnic, rather than make a million sandwiches or complicated things I just pack some bread, some fruit, some good cheese, and a little chocolate, and fancy it up by calling it a "European picnic." Maggie LOVES it, obviously, since that's what she chose out of all the things I could have made her. I'm looking forward to it because, Hello! What an easy dinner!
It's so much fun to make birthdays special. I love it.
Here's Maggie with her BFF, Riley, at a sleepover a few months ago. Yes, those are fake, cheap, plastic fingernails.
Pretty sure this was a swimsuit fashion show.
Love, love, love my six-year-old!

Tuesday, October 04, 2011

It's a zoo in here.

We love the zoo pass Grandma and Grandpa bought for Finn's birthday. It's so close that we don't mind going for little visits here and there, which I much prefer over a loooong, all-day visit. When Maggie was in school I took Finn and Carolina to meet up with my sister, Erin, and her kids Jack and Lily Kate.
I think everyone had the most fun in the Lorikeet Landing, even though Finn looks a little suspicious of the lorikeets here.Finn and Lily Kate (the gray and yellow blur) were freaking out about them (in a good way).Even Carolina was captivated by them. I think it's fun, too, but I can't be in there without remembering the time we were there with a member of the family (who shall remain nameless) and he was pooped on by one of the Lorikeets. It makes me verrrry nervous.

Sunday, October 02, 2011

Swingers



The weather here has been so wonderful that one Friday, after school, I took the kids to a park we love and we stayed there for two hours, having so much fun. I put these photos on facebook but I love them so much I wnated them on here, too.
Although it's hard to tell from the photo, Finn was having an awesome time.
Carolina didn't want to leave the swing. Here she is with a big smile.
And here she is with a HUGE smile!
It was a perfect day!

Friday, September 30, 2011

Cutest pjs ever

Finn usually sleeps in footed pajamas, turned around backwards to prevent him from taking them off. Recently all of his normal pajamas were in the wash so we improvised with a pair of pajama pants and t-shirt and I think the results were simply smashing. I could just eat him with a spoon.

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Door words

Finn has become obsessed lately with Maggie's magnetic letters. He now can correctly identify all 26 letters of the alphabet (upper AND lowercase) and numbers 0-9 and will happily play with the magnets for 15-30 minutes. It's so fun. Since we had them out one day we decided to write a message with them on our front door for Grant when he came home. Both Maggie and Finn got a kick out of it, as you can see below.

Monday, September 26, 2011

Carolina lately

This little sweetie...we just love her. (Duh!) Here's what she's up to lately.
She is loving words lately. She can say: mama, dada, no, nana (banana), hi, hey, hello, bye, thank you (seriously!), and the other day when I sang "Row, Row, Row Your Boat" to her she said right back to me, "Row, row, row."
She is having a lot of separation anxiety right now (which is normal for her age) and wants me the most. It's sweet and frustrating at the same time.
She is standing on her own for 30-60 seconds without falling but doesn't seem too interested in taking steps yet. She cruises (walking while holding onto furniture) a tiny bit. She crawls very quickly.
She is still eating great - loving nearly everything we feed her, and we basically feed her whatever we're eating now.
She's still nursing about 4 times a day and I plan on weaning her sometime after she turns one.
Life, for me, with three kids is so much easier now than it was even six months ago. Finn is becoming more mature and will walk through a parking lot while holding my hand, instead of darting away from me, and Carolina is so much sturdier and a little more independent. We are happy and having lots of fun around here!

Sunday, September 25, 2011

I heart Maggie

She is still such a smart, funny girl. Here are a few Maggie funnies:
Our one bathroom (I've told you before - our house is tiny) is in the back of the house near Carolina's room. When Maggie needs to use the restroom during rest/nap time I always ask her to be really quiet. Now that she's in school she only has rest time on the weekends but a few weeks ago she took me back into the restroom to show me her "quiet" way of flushing the toilet. She closes the door, puts down the lid to the toilet, puts one foot on the lid of the toilet and the other on the handle to the door, and then flushes the toilet. I'm not sure why she thinks that makes it any quieter but at least she's trying!
You may remember that Maggie's preschool teacher, Miss Heather, is Australian. Maggie now loves all things Australian and the other day when Carolina laughed Maggie said, "I think that was a dingo. If not a dingo, then a kookaburra." Hmmm...

At our church, part of our liturgy says, "Command, O Lord..." and Maggie leaned to me and said, "Why are they talking about not wearing underwear?!" Get it? It sounds like they said "commando," as in, "going commando."

And one more - Maggie has a stuffed dog that she's named Chocolate Olivia. Last night she told me, "Sometimes, when I look at Chocolate Olivia, I just love her so much I want to cry." Adorable!

Sunday, September 18, 2011

Warrior Dash

Yesterday my sister Erin and I participated in the Warrior Dash. In case you don't know what that is, you can check the website or here's my quick explanation: It's a 5K (3.2 miles) run on an obstacle course, culminating in a mud pit that you MUST climb through (there is barbed wire over your head, forcing you to stay low). Wait. That kind of doesn't sound fun. I promise, it was so much fun.
Here I am, right after jumping the fire.I'd been wanting to get back in shape since Carolina was born but I just hadn't made the commitment to get to the gym. Erin mentioned the Warrior Dash about two months ago and I thought it sounded fun, signed up with her, and then realized, "Oh, hey...I guess I better start exercising again." So I worked my way up from exercising for 30 minute chunks, running three minutes, walking one minute, over and over, all the way up to running 3o minutes without stopping. It took me about 3 weeks to work my way up to running the whole time. BUT, I got used to running on a (flat) treadmill in air conditioning, and I'd only run outside one time in the last two months, until yesterday. Folks, it was HOT and I think I didn't hydrate well enough before the race. I had to stop and walk way more than I wanted to because I kept thinking I was going to vomit. I also got tunnel vision onetime and although it is in my nature to push, push, push, I reminded myself that I am the mother of three and wife to one who need me and it would not be good to pass out in the middle of a field. I really had pictured myself sprinting from obstacle to obstacle and then going full force over the obstacles and that is NOT what happened. Maybe next year!Going into it I also was really hesitant about climbing a wall and I thought I might have to skip that obstacle. It turns out that there were at least five walls we had to climb (some with ropes, some with slats to climb up, and one even had a fire pole we had to slide down. But, those actually turned out to be my favorite obstacles and I'm proud that Erin and I did every single obstacle. The two we liked the least were climbing up this wall of hay bales which we then had to jump off of (we were afraid we'd break our ankles jumping into the soft hay) and one where we had to crawl through a long tunnel that was pitch black, through dirt. At the very end there were two fires we had to jump through and then the infamous mud pit. When we got to the fire we saw my dad there, cheering for us! He drove all the way out, about an hour and a half, just to cheer for us and take photos. Isn't that so sweet?!
There was someone with a hose, rinsing people off, but the line would have taken us at least 30 minutes to get through and we were too impatient, so we rinsed off our hands (I also changed clothes), and put towels on the seats, and drove home. When you turned in your computer chip (used to track your time), you are handed a stein of beer, but that was pretty much the last thing I wanted after exerting myself so I gave mine to Erin. Just kidding! We both gave our chips to strangers.
It was so much fun, I'm proud of myself and Erin, and I want to do it again next year, train better, go with a bigger group, and dress up. Want to run with us?!